Who and what do you fantasize about? (And never mind about the ‘whom’ — i know.)

That was the inappropriate subject i alluded to earlier — stuff that i maybe shouldn’t say out loud to the general audience. (Of course i’m drawn to taboo subjects.)

But it’s still a worthwhile topic, i think. Who is it safe for you to fantasize about? Friends, acquaintances, coworkers, celebrities, strangers, people you see at the café, people you see at church, people you make up in your head, et cetera?

Or is no one safe to fantasize about?

And who do you think might fantasize about *you*? Of course you might not want to know, but it’s just a fantasy.

It’s sort of nice being in the post-relationship phase of my life: i can think about these things and have a chuckle.

It’s much more comforting (for me) to fantasize than to pursue another IRL relationship. Reality never lives up to the fantasy, and maybe i don’t have the heart to try again.

[Note: This is one of those subjects that i was initially enthusiastic about, but then later i had doubts; better to just publish it and move on, that’s my thinking.]